Just got the first print copy of High-Heels And Slippers in the mail today and I can’t tell you how FAB it felt! I’m so excited and have been carrying it with me everywhere I go, clutching it like a baby. It’s just incredibly wonderful to have it right there in front of me, in the flesh. At some point I have to organise a book launch party and marketing strategy but for now all I seem to be able to do is sport a daft grin! 🙂 Here’s a pic…
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My daughter recently joined a swim team. She loves to swim so it seemed like a good idea. I bought her a new swimsuit to celebrate. It was one of those sporty swimsuits; navy blue and designed for serious swimming! Of course she hated it and immediately told me so. She didn’t like the straps because “they felt strange”. She didn’t like the colour because “it was too dark” and she wasn’t going to wear it because she was certain she would be the only swimmer in the pool wearing “that kind of swimsuit.” She wanted to wear her favourite swimsuit; the one with spaghetti straps covered in pink and lime hearts.
A heated debate ensued, where I explained that it was better to keep her strappy swimsuits for fun and use the new one for swim team because it was designed to be comfortable for competitive swimming. In return she shouted a lot, there were tears and a slammed door, but to my surprise I eventually won and my daughter solemnly went to her room to change.
When it came to the next swim class I prepared myself for another battle. I handed her the swim-bag and waited for the moans and groans. But none came. Instead my daughter skipped off to change with the comment: “Thanks for getting me this new swimsuit Mum, you were right: it’s much better for swim team!” I was dumbfounded.
It occurred to me that receiving a tough writing critique is similar to this in some ways. It’s natural to be attached to our writing. We can be particularly proud of a certain phrase or a character. Then we take our work to the critique group only to find that our fellow trusted writers suggest cutting that particular phrase or even that we change a character or plotline. And we balk at the advice; it hurts. We suck it up and go home with a mind to ignore it completely! What do they know anyway right?
But see here’s the thing: if we wait a while and then pluck up the courage to look at that advice again, we usually find that they were right after all. And if we can be brave enough to take it on board and make some changes, we find that our work has improved.
I have really found that the best advice I’ve received has been feedback that I’ve thought, at first, was negative and hard to take. I’ve sobbed into the pages of my manuscript lamenting the ruthless suggestion to cut whole paragraphs. I have cried spooning sugar into my cup of tea as I mull over the suggestion to rewrite a whole plotline. But every time, when I have had the guts to do it, it has worked out for the better and I have almost certainly learned much more in the process.
So I think writing critiques are just like my daughter and the swimsuit. We should be open and try the new swimsuit on, even if we don’t like the colour or style… because we might find that actually it’s a perfect fit! 🙂
Oh gosh this whole epublishing thing is a real rollercoaster! I was on such a high when I published High-Heels And Slippers in July, thrilled to actually sell some copies and convinced that I had edited every typo away.
I downloaded my own copy immediately, so that I could read it through on my Kindle and check it. But I felt physically sick every time I opened it up. Really. I just couldn’t face it. So I chickened out and put it to one side. It was utter cowardice on my part, I admit.
Then slowly it transpired through chatting with various friends who had bought copies (THANKYOU SO MUCH), that there were indeed still some errors lurking in there – AARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Although luckily, this did not seem to mar their enjoyment of the book – phew!)
Now I felt sick, for a different reason – I was embarrassed that I had succumbed to my impatience (I was a tad over-excited) and published my book without making another final edit. I had spent a substantial amount having it professionally edited and formatted, so I had assumed it would be ready to publish. But actually that was part of the problem – every time a manuscript is handled by someone else an opportunity for correcion AND ERROR is opened up. The responsibility for the final edit has to lie with the author.
I’ve chided myself for being a wimp, learned my lesson and vowed not to make the same mistake again! And now I hope that I have managed to get rid of all the typos, although I’m sure there must be one hiding in there somewhere!!!
Ok so the internet apparently turned twenty a couple of days ago. Seems unbelievable that it’s only been twenty years since it was launched and now it has become such an integral part of our lives. I’ve been even more aware of this since I released High-Heels And Slippers as an ebook. Not just because of the whole epublishing thing, which would simply not have existed twenty years ago, but because I’ve been researching and sourcing relevant networks, forums, websites. It is absolutely incredible how much is out there. How much support and advice you can find just by doing careful internet searches. And it blows me away!
It’s fantastic that you can reach like-minded people all over the globe, that you can share info and learn from each other. I love humans – I love humans because of what we can achieve, because we have this wonderful urge and ability to reach out and communicate. It’s empowering and humbling at the same time.
I’ve been reaching out on Twitter, Facebook and the internet. I’ve joined new forums like SheWrites and ChickLit Writers. I’ve subscribed to more blogs so that I can learn from the poeple who write them. I’m making comments and asking questions. And I’m meeting some lovely people along the way – thank you to the internet for making this possible. Happy 20th Birthday!
Have a great day everyone! 🙂
The thing about writing is that one is often a victim of highs and lows. And the best thing about being in a slump? Coming out the other side with renewed vigour of course!
I saw this blog by BookEnds, LLC and thought it was a timely reminder to push all insecurities aside and get stuck in: http://bookendslitagency.blogspot.com/
Write what comes naturally! 🙂
After a little deliberation I’ve decided to re-post Josie’s original blog entry. It’s the very first blog entry and explains a bit about Josie and her blog! Can’t believe I’ve been writing her blog for over a year now. When I first started I was so worried I wouldn’t have anything for her to say but as it happens that wasn’t the case – thank goodness! Josie Jenkins is still going strong and I’m still hoping that her book will be published soon! 🙂